Diaphragm: Frequency Asked Questions
Can my partner feel the diaphragm?
Most men are not able to feel the diaphragm. Some men may feel it during intercourse, but it shouldn’t be uncomfortable for either of you if this is the case.
How often do I need to replace my diaphragm?
You should check your diaphragm regularly for holes or tears by filling it with water and checking for tiny leaks. If you see one, replace your diaphragm immediately (and you might want to take a pregnancy test if you think you used it while it was damaged).
Even diaphragms without tears should be replaced every 2 years. You should also be refitted after pregnancy or if you lose or gain 10 or more pounds.
Does the diaphragm protect from STIs?
If you use the diaphragm and are concerned about both pregnancy and STIs, doubling up with the diaphragm and condoms could be a good option.
Can drinking alcohol affect my birth control?
Whether alcohol affects your birth control really depends on what method you're using. If you rely on birth control that requires you to use it before you have sex, like condoms or a diaphragm, then alcohol may make it harder for you to use your method correctly or to remember or to use it at all. Here's more detail about how alcohol can affect sex and birth control.
BTW, if you're interested a party-ready method, we've got you covered.What do I do if the diaphragm is irritating me?
The irritation could actually be from an allergy to spermicide. If the irritation is mild, you might try another type of spermicide.
How do I know a diaphragm is in correctly?
When inserting a diaphragm, push it as far up and back into your vagina as you can, and make sure to cover your cervix. You'll know the diaphragm is in correctly if you can't feel it. If it's uncomfortable, the diaphragm may be the wrong size, or not inserted quite right.
For more information, check out our section on How To Use a diaphragm.
How long can I leave a diaphragm in?
You can leave a diaphragm in for up to 24 hours.
Is it hard to insert and/or remove the diaphragm?
This might get easier with practice. If you haven’t yet read our section on how to use it, you might want to check that out.
How do I insert a diaphragm?
Easy! (Sort of.) Check out our section on how to insert a diaphragm.
How much does a diaphragm cost?
With proper care—and if you don't gain or lose a lot of weight—you can keep your diaphragm for up to ten years, making it the best birth control value for your buck at the equivalent of 42 cents to $2.08 a month (plus the cost of spermicide).
If you’re on Medicaid, the diaphragm might be free for you. If you have private insurance, it’s probably covered for no more than your copay.
If those aren’t options for you, check with the family planning clinics around you and find out if they offer free or low-cost birth control. Most do.
Without insurance, Medicaid, or any other assistance, the diaphragm costs $15-$75 plus the cost of fitting (which is probably less expensive at a family planning clinic like Planned Parenthood). Even at full price, it’s a pretty good deal in the long run!
